https://www.salon.com/2015/07/13/how_an ... ationship/
There is so much wrong with this article from start to finish. Anal sex is the least of this author's problems.
Here's a better title for her predicament, I think: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1rRszEYKdM
The guy is also a jerk though. Springing anal on a woman without preparation is already quite a dickish move in my book, but then freaking out because he got some poop on his dick after she gave him what he wanted is just super weak.
In my experience most girls hate the feeling of being gross, and doing anal always carries some risk with it in that regard if she isn't preparing herself well. By reacting like he did, he probably scared her out of experiencing how pleasurable anal sex can be for a long time, if not forever.
I had some small accident happen two or three times, but I always reassured the woman that it's no big deal and used the opportunity to introduce her to cleaning techniques.
But the article as a whole was a confession of this woman's hang-ups around sex in general and her body/physical response to sex in particular. Anal sex is just the scapegoat here.
It's remarkable to me, though, that this is an important, popular website posting something so shoddy, and there's so little awareness on the part of the author about all that's wrong with that situation.
I've read before about these perceptions of anti anal propaganda but it's more likely just people talking about things they don't understand and assuming there their own personal experience must apply to everyone else. There's also the thing that humans by nature are intolerant of other points of view and just want the world to conform.
I like to see the positive where I can and imagine to progress that is made. Can you imagine articles of any kind about anal sex 40+ years ago?