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- Joined: Fri Jul 19, 2019 10:02 am
- Gender: Female
I found this site because of reddit and pretty excited to have like-minded people to talk to. I'm 33/f married to my husband for 2 years but together for 11.
I've been intrigued by anal since my teens but never enjoyed it until the last few months. Now it seems that I've become anal-centric? My husband and I still enjoy playing with my pussy (especially oral/ foreplay), but I only want him to finish in my ass now. I've become obsessed with keeping his cum in my ass as long as i can, which only makes me want it more
I'm starting to learn how to learn how to orgasm from anal without clit stimulation, too.
Im really excited to see where this takes me
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- Joined: Fri Mar 01, 2019 10:15 am
- Gender: Male
- Location: Netherlands
In my experience enjoyable anal sex has a lot to do with trust and comfidence in your partner. I guess after being together for so long you have built that up.
I'd recommend finding out which positions and practices turn you on most and expanding on that. I know that pure anal orgasms are possible if you find the way how you can get swept up in the experience.
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- Joined: Fri Oct 11, 2013 1:25 pm
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- Location: USA
Welcome, @JmnB33! Congratulations on discovering how amazing anal truly is—once you figure that out, becoming anal-centric is pretty natural! How often would you say that you're having vaginal intercourse compared to anal now at this point? Is shifting away from that towards purely anal penetration something that interests you? Plenty of people are anal only for penetration but may still involve clit stimulation during oral or for foreplay or to orgasm during anal penetration—but as you're probably discovering through your experimentation with anal only orgasms, there are advantages to moving away from that as well!