So... there's my rambling introduction.
Fortunately for us, anal sex is very pleasurable and the anus has a lot of nerve endings that can be stimulated. Also, you can go deeper with anal, which isn't always the case with the vagina depending on the woman. You are definitely somebody's dream girl (and by somebody I mean a lot of guys).
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There have been some other women here with MRKH and similar conditions that made vaginal sex impossible, painful, or uncomfortable for them and resulted in them discovering anal sex and the anal only lifestyle instead, so you're definitely not alone in that regard.
Furthermore, many people around these parts agree that anal sex is far better and more fun than vaginal sex anyway, so you aren't really missing out on much, even though I know that not having the choice at all can feel unfair and like you are missing out. There's a slowly growing trend among younger women to skip vaginal and go straight to anal only, so if if helps you, you could think of yourself in that way.
I can agree with what @throwawaymedfree says, that to a lot of guys (myself included), a girl who can't even physically have vaginal sex and is purely anal only would be a dream girl to them. I don't say that to try to fetishize your condition, but to illustrate that you can own it and feel sexy about yourself as you are.
Finally, you're definitely a feminine woman. Vaginas do not make women women. You're more than a vagina, you're a human person, and nothing changes that. And try to work to overcome any stigmas you may have about anal, they're unfortunately common for a lot of people to have, but they aren't rooted in any sort of reality. Anal, when done right, is pleasure and bliss and intimacy all rolled into one, and there's never anything wrong with that.
Have you started to do any exploration of anal stimulation or penetration on your own? I'd suggest reading through our Guide to get started.
Wow, I'm sorry for your condition but all is not a loss.
It sounds like you need a kind, understanding and patient man to take your anal "Cherry" (excuse me if I sound glib).
I have had a number of relationships where once anal sex was introduced into the mix it quickly became the preferred sexual act.
There are many women capable of vaginal sex who would rather engage in anal.
My wife and I have been anal only (her choice but mine too) for 25 years.
Vaginal sex isn't all it's cracked up to be.
My wife was very prone to ending up with a UTI after vaginal sex.
She was never able to orgasm from vaginal but now she regularly cums 2-4 times when we have sex.
As far as not being able to bear children - well I'm sure you have considered adoption.
Imagine being able to bring happiness to an unwanted child's life.
I wish you the best in your sexual journey.
Please don't say so.. I am also religious and I believe it's better to begin have sex after marriage cuz it usually indicates the seriousness of the guy intentions and gives the girl the security she needs (emotionally and in case of pregnancy).. And as an anal lover I would be glad to marry a girl who I love even if she has MRKH, main thing is that we fit together and we love each other and the anal only lifestyle will be a pleasure for me and I would do all I can to make my girl enjoy it and love it .. And believe me am not a rare case.. there are enough men who would be honored to have such lovely girl like you