because of time constraints (anal stretching always takes a long time for me) and gut health issues, i have a very hard time sticking to the AO lifestyle. i always want to have anal sex, but it always feels like a struggle, so my partner and I only do it on and off.
however, I am also incredibly submissive, and my main goal in sex is making my partner happy and fulfilling his fantasies: his pleasure always comes first. so, since it's anal only November, we're trying to get back into AO and our current objective is not having vaginal sex until at least January 2024.
the idea is anal only sex and mandatory anal penetration when I'm masturbating/cumming (i can still touch my clit). if anal sex feels problematic at any point, we'll do only blowjobs for a bit, but if i want to rub or cum I also need to be plugged. hopefully I'll finish the year with a very neglected pussy and a beautifully gaped asshole
