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[helen_k]

Hi I wanted to introduce myself as it seems to be the done thing.

I have been doing AO for a few weeks now using sex toys under the instruction of a long distance partner. He directed me here and asked me to research a bit and make some posts.

I am not sure how long we intend to go AO for but at the moment there is no upper limit.

If anyone has any questions feel free to ask

[C.Fàbregas]

Hi I wanted to introduce myself as it seems to be the done thing.

I have been doing AO for a few weeks now using sex toys under the instruction of a long distance partner. He directed me here and asked me to research a bit and make some posts.

I am not sure how long we intend to go AO for but at the moment there is no upper limit.

If anyone has any questions feel free to ask

Hello dear, welcome! It's really good that women is showing up and share their stories.
I have one question... how your long distance relationship started? Tell us.

[kinkisgood]

Hello and welcome! Thanks for sharing

I also have one question for you - what exactly does AO mean for you and your partner? No vaginal penetration, or also no clit stimulation?

[helen_k]

To answer your questions:

We met through an adult website and talked for weeks before deciding to move into sexual activities online. Over time anal became part of our play more and more until he suggested a trial period of AO. At first I was reluctant but I agreed to give it a go in the end.

AO for us means no touching of the vagina inside or out, or on the clit for any pleasurable reasons. Washing etc is fine of course. All sexual contact is anal or oral although he has said my vagina could still be slapped for example if I was misbehaving!

[kinkisgood]

AO for us means no touching of the vagina inside or out, or on the clit for any pleasurable reasons. Washing etc is fine of course. All sexual contact is anal or oral although he has said my vagina could still be slapped for example if I was misbehaving!

Thanks for the reply

You mentioned that you were initially reluctant when your partner brought up this idea. What reasons did your partner give for why you should give it a try, and what made you decide to do so?

[helen_k]

Well I was reluctant because it wasn't something I was used to and certainly not an idea I had heard of before.

The conversation came about because he was increasingly asking me to put things in my behind when we played over the phone or webcam. I questioned this and that got the conversation started on why he liked it. His approach was to tell me how much he would enjoy it but also that the amount of pleasure I was currently getting could be greatly increased, which he backed up with some links and stories from people who had successfully achieved very intense anal orgasms.

I was persuaded firstly by his promises of more enjoyment, secondly by the fact I want to do what turns him on and thirdly because I am a naturally submissive person sexually and so doing what my partner wants comes naturally.

[marcus]

Hello Helen.

Are you saying all your activities are long distance? The two of you haven't actually met yet?

[helen_k]

Initially yes. Although we have met now, we can't meet regularly, so we speak online instead.