Where and How did you meet your partner?

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Where and How did you meet your partner?

Post by Haunter » Sun Mar 05, 2017 3:58 pm

1) Where and How did you meet your stable partners?
2) How then did you start knowing each other?
3) And... Last but not least, when and under which circumstances did you have sex together the first time?

(To me, knowing interesting potential partners either for look as well for character seems a tough task: it happens very rarely! I would really like to listen to your experiences...)

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Post by KinkyGermanGuy » Sun Mar 05, 2017 10:35 pm

1) online dating (okcupid) with a 99% match.
2) meeting and clicking.
2) she was quite starved of sex, did not take long into the second meeting.

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Post by Sgt_Valk » Mon Mar 06, 2017 12:54 am

Mine found me through my Twitch stream. We started talking on there, and one night during a drunk stream i admitted my love of anal and some other kink stuff i was interested in. She showed me fetlife. I took on the role of dom and asked her to be my sub since we were already close and had similar interests. Since then we have met twice, had lots of sex and i showed her anal, as she was a virgin to it. Turns out she loves it and doesnt mind going anal only
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Post by Haunter » Mon Mar 06, 2017 2:30 am

KinkyGermanGuy wrote:1) online dating (okcupid) with a 99% match.
2) meeting and clicking.
2) she was quite starved of sex, did not take long into the second meeting.

OkCupid?! I used it for much time and great efforts too... But never got anything serious from it, except once. That time we chatted for some days, but -long story short-, on the phone I fully understood she was not completely ok mentally (she continuously messed up facts and depicted differently things she had written via chat), so things ended just there.
I don't understand if the problem is me, the app itself (which I consider is built in a very clever and appealing way, so guess not), or the app users. I also suspect a not tiny part of them to be fake profiles.
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Post by KinkyGermanGuy » Mon Mar 06, 2017 11:34 am

Yes, okcupid comes with some risk. I also met my previous partner there, turned out to be a toxic personality, damaged by her own broken relationship, caused me lots of anxiety and pain, I ended with PTSD and some serious impact on my emotional bandwidth and some limitations on my sex-life. My current partner tries to heal me for two years now.

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Post by MrsCanassman » Sun Mar 12, 2017 1:33 pm


1) Where and How did you meet your stable partners? I was still in high school - 16 - and he had just come to town to work for the summer after 1st year of university.
2) How then did you start knowing each other? Mutual friends. Many beach fires and deep conversations.
3) And... Last but not least, when and under which circumstances did you have sex together the first time? After 3 months of being friends... we decided we actually wanted it to be more and we found ourselves alone at his place and ended up spending that whole month fucking whenever we could. First man to do ass play on me. :o I loved it (and him) so much I married him. :twisted:

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Re: Where and How did you meet your partner?

Post by Rachey » Wed Mar 15, 2017 6:23 am

1.We met through a friend at a get together

2. We exchanged numbers and arranged a date a few days later

3. After our third date, I invited him back to my place

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Post by Haunter » Wed Mar 15, 2017 11:08 am

Rachey wrote:1.We met through a friend at a get together

2. We exchanged numbers and arranged a date a few days later

3. After our third date, I invited him back to my place

What is a "get together"?
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Re: Where and How did you meet your partner?

Post by Rachey » Wed Mar 15, 2017 1:58 pm

A social gathering :D more sophisticated than a party lol

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