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The time of new year’s resolutions is upon us, and if you aren’t currently enjoying an anal only lifestyle, consider this your prompt to move on from vaginal sex and go anal only yourself. Starting January 1, 2019, replace all vaginal sex and masturbation with anal instead. Anal is the way of the future, while vaginal is rapidly becoming a thing of the past for many people. Don’t you think it’s time you found out what the anal only lifestyle is all about for yourself?
And if you’re already anal only, this can be a good time to review your current implementation of the anal only lifestyle and see if there’s anything new that you would like to add into the mix, whether it be experimenting with clitoral denial and trying to focus on anal only orgasms, incorporating ass to mouth into your routine, starting to wear a butt plug more regularly for a constant reminder of anal pleasure or just as a practical tool to make frequent anal sex easier, experimenting with chastity devices or piercings, or anything else that appeals to you!
Be sure to check out our brand new Anal Sex Advice & Guide to the Anal Only Lifestyle page for information on introducing anal play and sex into your life, going anal only, and far more! And if you decide to make anal only your new year’s resolution, be sure to reply in this thread or send a message to the blog.
Although there have been 21 days this year we have not had anal sex, we've more than made up for it. Today is day 123 of 2019 and we've managed to have anal sex 135 times so far this year. Of course, there have been a number times where we just did a quicky, but it's never felt like an obligation, or something we had to do.
Although my wife has never been a 'morning sex' kind of person, she is beginning to enjoy it more and more and has even had a number of morning orgasms. We have a ritual in which we both get up and go to the bathroom, brush our teeth and freshen up a bit. Then we return to bed to have sex. It's been great fun and a real bonding experience for both of us. I go out the door to work feeling like the king of the world, and thinking about my wife all day.
As I mentioned in another post, my wife has used clitoral stimulation off and on since we began having anal sex. Since the new year it became an every time thing. I asked her if she'd be willing to try foregoing clitoral stimulation for Anal Only April, and she agreed to try. Although I could tell she was a little skeptical, once she determines to do something, she does it. Of course, I couldn't understand her skepticism, as she had orgasms just as often without clitoral stimulation in the past. When having anal sex with clitoral stimulation her orgasm would come on quickly and abruptly end. After, she didn't like to be touched for a time. This meant I had to finish when she did, or wait until later to have my orgasm. Now, her orgasms seem to build up, then plateau for ten to fifteen minutes. After, she still has an intense climax, but she comes down from it much more slowly. During this time, she wants to be close to me. If I haven't finished, she revels in relaxation while I finish. Although she didn't commit to stop clitoral stimulation beyond April, she has said she agreed to continue without it for now. Although I'm hopeful she will continue to have sex without clitoral stimulation, I'd be okay to go back to the way it used to be, in which it about a 50/50 mix of anal without clitoral stimulation and anal with clitoral stimulation.