Anal Only New Year 2019

[analsexonly]

The time of new year’s resolutions is upon us, and if you aren’t currently enjoying an anal only lifestyle, consider this your prompt to move on from vaginal sex and go anal only yourself. Starting January 1, 2019, replace all vaginal sex and masturbation with anal instead. Anal is the way of the future, while vaginal is rapidly becoming a thing of the past for many people. Don’t you think it’s time you found out what the anal only lifestyle is all about for yourself?

And if you’re already anal only, this can be a good time to review your current implementation of the anal only lifestyle and see if there’s anything new that you would like to add into the mix, whether it be experimenting with clitoral denial and trying to focus on anal only orgasms, incorporating ass to mouth into your routine, starting to wear a butt plug more regularly for a constant reminder of anal pleasure or just as a practical tool to make frequent anal sex easier, experimenting with chastity devices or piercings, or anything else that appeals to you!

Be sure to check out our brand new Anal Sex Advice & Guide to the Anal Only Lifestyle page for information on introducing anal play and sex into your life, going anal only, and far more! And if you decide to make anal only your new year’s resolution, be sure to reply in this thread or send a message to the blog.

[AOS]

My resolution ! it is totally new for me.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

My wife and I made a new year resolution to have anal sex every day in 2019. We knew it would be impracticable to think we could have it every single day, but wanted to have had anal sex at least 365 times by the end of the year (one time for each day). Sure enough, we both suffered bouts of the flu, had family obligations, and travel for work. My wife could tell I was disappointed we weren't keeping up. She was determined to keep this resolution. So she suggested having anal sex in the morning (whenever practical), as well as in the evening (when we typically have sex).

Although there have been 21 days this year we have not had anal sex, we've more than made up for it. Today is day 123 of 2019 and we've managed to have anal sex 135 times so far this year. Of course, there have been a number times where we just did a quicky, but it's never felt like an obligation, or something we had to do.

Although my wife has never been a 'morning sex' kind of person, she is beginning to enjoy it more and more and has even had a number of morning orgasms. We have a ritual in which we both get up and go to the bathroom, brush our teeth and freshen up a bit. Then we return to bed to have sex. It's been great fun and a real bonding experience for both of us. I go out the door to work feeling like the king of the world, and thinking about my wife all day.

As I mentioned in another post, my wife has used clitoral stimulation off and on since we began having anal sex. Since the new year it became an every time thing. I asked her if she'd be willing to try foregoing clitoral stimulation for Anal Only April, and she agreed to try. Although I could tell she was a little skeptical, once she determines to do something, she does it. Of course, I couldn't understand her skepticism, as she had orgasms just as often without clitoral stimulation in the past. When having anal sex with clitoral stimulation her orgasm would come on quickly and abruptly end. After, she didn't like to be touched for a time. This meant I had to finish when she did, or wait until later to have my orgasm. Now, her orgasms seem to build up, then plateau for ten to fifteen minutes. After, she still has an intense climax, but she comes down from it much more slowly. During this time, she wants to be close to me. If I haven't finished, she revels in relaxation while I finish. Although she didn't commit to stop clitoral stimulation beyond April, she has said she agreed to continue without it for now. Although I'm hopeful she will continue to have sex without clitoral stimulation, I'd be okay to go back to the way it used to be, in which it about a 50/50 mix of anal without clitoral stimulation and anal with clitoral stimulation.

[kingsman]

Your wife is an example to all women everywhere! And if she can continue to have sex without clitoral stimulation, then all the better. Trying to have anal sex everyday is an ambitious plan, but even if it were practical I don't think my girlfriend would be up for it. Still, I salute you sir! Also, unless it's a weekend there is rarely time for sex in the morning as it is always a rush.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

I wanted to provide everyone an update as to how were's doing. It's day 181 of the year, just short of half way through the year. We're well on track to meet our goal of having anal sex at least 365 times this year. We've now had anal sex 208 times. What's almost as great is that my wife has continued, with only a couple of exceptions, to do it without clitoral stimulation. She's having more orgasms than ever and her libido seems higher. What's amazing to us is that we are having some of the best sex of our lives, and more often.

Hopefully this doesn't gross anyone out. Assuming my ejaculate volume is at least one tablespoon each time we have sex (a conservative estimate in my opinion), if we reach our goal of having anal sex at least 365 times, I will have pumped nearly a gallon and a half of cum up her ass in the course of the year. I can't help but think this has some effect on her libido.

[analsexonly]

I wanted to provide everyone an update as to how were's doing. It's day 181 of the year, just short of half way through the year. We're well on track to meet our goal of having anal sex at least 365 times this year. We've now had anal sex 208 times. What's almost as great is that my wife has continued, with only a couple of exceptions, to do it without clitoral stimulation. She's having more orgasms than ever and her libido seems higher. What's amazing to us is that we are having some of the best sex of our lives, and more often.

That's awesome. Do the two of you think that her increased orgasm frequency and libido are a result more of the increase in frequency of having sex, or of the exclusion of clitoral stimulation? Or both?

Personally, I've found that eliminating clitoral stimulation usually increases libido and helps make anal only orgasms much easier over time due to the shift in focus and primary stimulation/orgasm trigger source to anal.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

I wanted to provide everyone an update as to how were's doing. It's day 181 of the year, just short of half way through the year. We're well on track to meet our goal of having anal sex at least 365 times this year. We've now had anal sex 208 times. What's almost as great is that my wife has continued, with only a couple of exceptions, to do it without clitoral stimulation. She's having more orgasms than ever and her libido seems higher. What's amazing to us is that we are having some of the best sex of our lives, and more often.

That's awesome. Do the two of you think that her increased orgasm frequency and libido are a result more of the increase in frequency of having sex, or of the exclusion of clitoral stimulation? Or both?

Personally, I've found that eliminating clitoral stimulation usually increases libido and helps make anal only orgasms much easier over time due to the shift in focus and primary stimulation/orgasm trigger source to anal.

Both, definitely.

We both subscribe to the belief that frequent exposure to my ejaculate makes her feel more happier, more connected, and increases her libido (maybe as a result of the previous two). As well, it reduces her PMS symptoms and menstrual cramping. So much so we didn't even realize she was about to have her period until it started. Then, it her libido remains high during her period.

The elimination of clitoral stimulation has lead to much longer, intense orgasms and multiple orgasms. She never had multiple orgasms with clitoral stimulation. As well, it seems like she has these really great orgasms that wipe her out, yet she can become aroused again in a very short period of time. It really has been a great thing for us. The only down side to this is that she's doing less ass to mouth. We talked about it, and both realized that she usually did it when the clitoral stimulation became to much for her, but she wasn't ready to cum. After I pointed out the fact I really missed it, she has made more of an effort, but it just doesn't seem as exciting to her as it did. Don't get me wrong, she still does ass to mouth just about every time, it just went from 3 or 4 times to once. I'm thankful she's willing to do it at all, let alone enjoy doing it.

So far this weekend we've had sex Friday night, Saturday morning, Saturday afternoon, and Saturday night. Then, she woke me up about 2AM and told me she had been having a sex dream and we fucked again. She got off every time, with the exception of Saturday morning. She's still asleep now, but I'm hoping she'll be up to it this morning when she wakes, as I'm ready to go writing this.

Whenever I think about it, I'm in constant disbelief I have a wife that loves anal sex as much as I do, to the point of the total elimination of direct vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Every day I still feel like I'm going to wake up and find it was all a crazy sex dream.

[hasani2222]

It makes sense that without clitoral stimulation, she's not as horny and willing to do ass to mouth. Personally, I'd tell her to start rubbing her clit again if she wants to that I could get some more ass to mouth. Once a session is alright, obviously, if that's okay with you but I would want more ass to mouth, not less over time. It seems like she would do it on her own being so horny. Now she does it because you were missing it and really wanted it.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

It makes sense that without clitoral stimulation, she's not as horny and willing to do ass to mouth.

Quite the opposite. The reason she was doing more ass to mouth before is because the clitoral stimulation would become too intense for her and she would need to stop. Otherwise, she would cum before she was ready. It's almost like anal only, without clit stimulation, is self regulating. She now has longer deeper orgasms and only cums when she's ready to. It's as if anal alone gives her the perfect amount of stimulation and cause her orgasms to happen only when they are supposed to.

She's now firmly in agreement that she enjoys sex more without clitoral stimulation, and that her orgasms are better.

With clit stimulation her orgasms come on fast and are done. She feels less satisfied. Clitoral orgasms, even with anal stimulation seem very localized, where her anal only orgasms seem to encompass her whole body.

Although, I will admit, I miss having more ass to mouth a little, her 5-10 minute orgasms more than make up for it. Besides, she is still performing ass to mouth pretty much every time we have sex. Just not 4 or 5 times. I can live with the trade off.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

If any of you saw my reply to the BLOG post, “Discussion: What Happens if You Have Too Much Anal Sex?” some I've added to it here.

As of the 7th of this month, it was day 219 of the year and we've had anal sex 258 times. 50 times in the past 30 days alone.

I was curious just how much anal sex we've had over the past 28 years. In my best estimate, we've had anal sex approximately 6478 times for an estimated total of 1620 hours. That equates to 67.5 days spent having anal sex. In that time I estimate I've ejaculated more that 25 gallons of cum in her ass.

So, if anyone wonders if you can have too much anal sex? The answer is no.