approaching anal only

[analsexonly]

I agree with FarmerDan—if being anal only is an essential part of your sex life, and not something you're willing to compromise on, then you should be up front about it once you reach the stage where you start discussing sexual things with a new potential partner. Inevitably, some are turned off and uninterested, but others will be intrigued and if they like you in other ways, they might be willing to give it a try. That's been my experience—a lot of women, especially those who already enjoy anal, seem to find the idea an immediate turn on even if they aren't sure whether they'd be able to do it, and they want to try it. I imagine it would be the same with men, though it's not universal that every man wants anal, many love it and fantasize about the idea of anal only.

[Arseguy]

I would be happy with anal only if I ever found a girl who was into it. I have found that girls tend to prefer sex in their pussy and so I feel I'm stuck with watching porn as I don't think Id ever find a girl who would like anal and all that goes with it. I much prefer a girls arse to her pussy personally.

[LuvMyWifesAss]

...Inevitably, some are turned off and uninterested, but others will be intrigued and if they like you in other ways, they might be willing to give it a try. That's been my experience—a lot of women, especially those who already enjoy anal, seem to find the idea an immediate turn on even if they aren't sure whether they'd be able to do it, and they want to try it...

I agree with analsexonly. There will be women who will be intrigued, possibly even turned on, at the thought of something so unusual or "naughty." Several people I've conversed with about trying to convince their wife or girlfriend to try anal only for a month found that, when they presented it as a challenge, their significant other agreed. Others merely had to ask, usually presenting it as a birthday or Christmas gift.

In almost all of these cases, however, the couple had already been having anal sex on a fairly regular basis (at least once or twice a month) and the female partner generally enjoyed anal sex.

As one who came to the realization my wife would have preferred to be anal only much earlier, I wish I would have asked. In my case, it was my wife who asked if I minded if we just skipped vaginal sex and went straight to anal. Only after discussing it did we both realize we both would have preferred to be anal only years earlier. Each of us thought we were continuing to have vaginal sex for the other. It was such a freeing experience to realize we didn't have to bother with vaginal sex any longer. Our sex life became much more enjoyable and intense. As a result, we became closer than ever.

I sincerely believe that most women, when properly introduced to anal sex, will choose anal sex over vaginal. It's the introduction and initial implementation us guys seem to screw up so often. Of course, there will be those women who are totally closed minded to it, most likely due to religious conviction or those who are convinced it's dirty or an act in which the man dominates the woman. Sadly, some cannot ever be convinced otherwise and will never experience the true joy of pleasurable sex.

[Arseguy]

Sadly, some cannot ever be convinced otherwise and will never experience the true joy of pleasurable sex.

Yes, sadly