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Marianki
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by Marianki » Tue Nov 22, 2016 1:05 am
hello, Im M

arian, 25 and I have been a fan for 10 years, I do not look for vaginal sex.
I'm still a virgin, I only practice but I still do not reach anal orgasm, I do not know what to do, I can take 10 "dildos in my ass, and I'm still looking for toys that satisfy me.
While more time passes I still think about this but I do not know why I still can not have orgasms only anal.
Sorry because it seems that I only come to confess but I had not mentioned anyone, my sexual desires have always been hidden.
^^u
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Egotestical
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by Egotestical » Tue Nov 22, 2016 11:42 am
Welcome to the forum Marian. Hope you enjoy your stay and perhaps find what you're looking for. 10 inches?! That's pretty talented. Keep at it, I'm sure you'll find that spot sooner or later. Let me know if you ever visit Michigan!

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KinkyGermanGuy
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by KinkyGermanGuy » Tue Nov 22, 2016 7:50 pm
Marianki wrote:
While more time passes I still think about this but I do not know why I still can not have orgasms only anal.
Sorry because it seems that I only come to confess but I had not mentioned anyone, my sexual desires have always been hidden.
^^u
What we found helping for anal orgasms is a decent amount of Marijuana before the act. With an inflatable vibrating toy the record of my partner is 5 intense orgasms in a session, before she had enough.
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Marianki
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by Marianki » Tue Nov 22, 2016 11:02 pm
yes 10" haha when I saw it in Amazon, I thought it was smaller but when I took it out of the box I saw that it was wider than my arms.
Before buying it, I only played with a butt plug doc johnson medium and an anal stick.

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Haunter
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by Haunter » Wed Nov 23, 2016 3:02 pm
Welcome Marianki! Look, here I see no one has to feel ashamed of anything. We are all intelligent people, understanding and caring with each other

Think, it's free

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Egotestical
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by Egotestical » Wed Nov 23, 2016 3:37 pm
Marianki wrote:yes 10" haha when I saw it in Amazon, I thought it was smaller but when I took it out of the box I saw that it was wider than my arms.
Before buying it, I only played with a butt plug doc johnson medium and an anal stick.

Wider than your arm? That's really impressive! Definitely something I'd be into...

I've always found porn where women use large toys pretty hot. Or men using large toys on them

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analsexonly
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by analsexonly » Thu Nov 24, 2016 9:40 am
Hi Marian, welcome to the forum!
Some people do have a much easier time reaching anal orgasm than others, but there are some things you can try if you haven't already.
- I presume you do clit play along with your anal masturbation most of the time in order to orgasm? How long have you tried going without clit stimulation when attempting to reach anal orgasm? For some, if clit stimulation has become too much of a habit, it can be hard to orgasm any other way because you've come to depend on clit stimulation as an easy path to orgasm. Going without it for a while, both to get out of that habit and to allow your arousal to grow over a long period, can help to reverse that somewhat and get back to a state where anal orgasm might be easier to achieve.
- Separately, and along somewhat different lines, you can try to continue using clitoral stimulation but only to edge yourself and get close to orgasm but then stop all clitoral stimulation and try to go over the edge with just anal. You might have to get really close with your clit at first, and then over time try to get to where you can cum with less and less clit play, and then eliminate it altogether eventually.
- Finally, try masturbating anally while you have a full bladder. This can make you more sensitive, as well as move things around a little bit internally, and for some women it makes it possible to have an anal orgasm much more easily.
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Marianki
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by Marianki » Mon Nov 28, 2016 11:22 am
Thank you all, I really want to have real anal orgasms, I will try to masturbate without using my clit, the use of butt plug vibrator would help me?
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by analsexonly » Mon Dec 05, 2016 7:35 am
I suppose it's possible a vibrating butt plug would help, but I suspect a dildo of some sort would be more beneficial to cum from just anal, as it's often the repeated motion that will push you over the edge rather than a more passive vibration from a plug. Everybody's different, though.
Let us know your progress and if you discover what works for you!