Never actually went all the way yet...

medibankd · Post by **medibankd** » Fri Jun 23, 2017 9:51 pm

Hello everyone.
I'm a 32 year old divorced guy living in Brooklyn. My anal fascination happened mostly because my ex-wife of 8 years was extremely anti-anal. She wouldn't even let me see her asshole, the entire time we were together. (I only caught a good glimpse in the last year of our relationship, and I don't know why she was so shy, it was very nice. Also, she was not a sexual person at all.) This naturally led me to seeking out more and more anal porn until it became my #1 fetish.

Been apart for over a year and I still have never fully had anal sex. A couple girls have let me eat their ass or finger it, but the only girl who even thought about letting my cock in changed her mind as soon as I tried to push.

My porn preferences, however, are almost always anal only. Who knows if I'll even like it if I ever get actually to try it? I have to admit, when I look at a woman on OKCupid, one of the first things I do is check their answer to the "Do you like anal or think you might like it?" question, as well as the analingus one.

That's my story.

Hamburgartjuven · Post by **Hamburgartjuven** » Sat Jun 24, 2017 12:13 am

Start to masturbate anally. If U like that U Will lern to like having anal sex with a woman... And she wont stop U when you start cause then U know what your doing...

Post by **analsexonly** » Sat Jun 24, 2017 6:12 am

Welcome.

I can't say what it will be like for you, as different people like different things, but many years ago before I had first had anal sex, I had a similar attraction and fascination long before having the opportunity to do it, and the reality very much lived up to and surpassed the anticipation, and I still have it.

Haunter · Post by **Haunter** » Sat Jun 24, 2017 3:41 pm

Hi medibankd, welcome here!

Well, I have 0 experience, so don't give too much weight to my words, but I think for a man it's not necessary to play anally with himself. I'd guess it could be a plus, but I think it's not mandatory...

Anyway I'm curious about OKCupid so I'll ask you "have you ever got anything serious out of that app?"

gromm · Post by **gromm** » Sat Jun 24, 2017 8:24 pm

Haunter wrote:Hi medibankd, welcome here!

Well, I have 0 experience, so don't give too much weight to my words, but I think for a man it's not necessary to play anally with himself. I'd guess it could be a plus, but I think it's not mandatory...

Oh, dude, it is so worthwhile to take up this challenge. Women really, really do trust you a lot more when "you know what you're doing, because you've taken it like that". And word will get around.

singleinDC · Post by **singleinDC** » Sun Jun 25, 2017 6:19 am

As sexy as anal looks, it's actually even more amazing to experience. It's way better than the v-hole, I promise!