I'm a white european male. I'm approaching a big milestone date, and was divorced a few years ago after nearly a decade of marriage.
Finding this place has meant so much to e personally. I had thought I was the only one! Now I can talk about me desires to my hearts content and be understood!
I had dreamed about having anal sex for many many years. However, my wife would always say that she would never allow that or see why anyone would want to have anal sex when there was the "natural way" available. For a long time I had to satisfy myself with porn, and damn was I so envious of what I saw as it looked so good and the men looked like they were having the time of their lives. I wouldn't say it was the only reason, but being frustrated and having a boring sex life was a big part of the marriage breakdown. Good riddance to her. It was something that I should have done sooner.
So, moving on about a year after the happy day I started a new relationship. My girlfriend is quite a bit younger and the opposite of my ex in nearly every way. Soon after we started sleeping together she let me fuck her ass. Suffice to say I was hooked straight away
I can't believe what I had been missing out on ALL THOSE YEARS 
Anal sex turned out to be every bit as good as it looked. Now I think that I could happily do anal and only anal for the rest of my life. Now the thing is that while my girlfriend is so much more adventurous and open than my ex...I'm not sure if she is ready for that step, but I want to make it happen.
