if you do anal because vaginal is painful, then you can get help.

repentant-and-silent · Post by **repentant-and-silent** » Thu Jan 24, 2019 2:09 pm

I'm surprised by the number of girls on here who say they do anal because vaginal is painful. You all should know that that's usually called vaginismus, and is easily treatable.

Analien · Post by **Analien** » Fri Jan 25, 2019 4:50 am

Well, there are surely a lot of things to discuss on this topic, but why do you post the same twice on this forum?

repentant-and-silent · Post by **repentant-and-silent** » Thu Jan 31, 2019 1:39 pm

Analien wrote: ↑
Fri Jan 25, 2019 4:50 am
Well, there are surely a lot of things to discuss on this topic, but why do you post the same twice on this forum?

because it was only after I posted the first time that I realized it warranted it's own thread.

Post by **analsexonly** » Mon Feb 25, 2019 8:11 am

If someone wants to, then then can. The entire status quo is around doing what you're suggesting, in fact. Here, we present an alternative: rather than sticking with the status quo and forcing your way through something you don't enjoy or find appealing in the hopes that it will get better in the future, why not just focus on the thing that gives more pleasure than vaginal even in the best of times?

Many prefer anal because it feels better than vaginal, whether vaginal is just not as pleasurable, not comfortable, or outright painful. Some do this after having tried treatment and finding anal still more enjoyable.

If you've got a problem with that, this is probably the wrong community for you.

repentant-and-silent · Post by **repentant-and-silent** » Mon Feb 25, 2019 3:55 pm

analsexonly wrote: ↑
Mon Feb 25, 2019 8:11 am
If someone wants to, then then can. The entire status quo is around doing what you're suggesting, in fact. Here, we present an alternative: rather than sticking with the status quo and forcing your way through something you don't enjoy or find appealing in the hopes that it will get better in the future, why not just focus on the thing that gives more pleasure than vaginal even in the best of times?

Many prefer anal because it feels better than vaginal, whether vaginal is just not as pleasurable, not comfortable, or outright painful. Some do this after having tried treatment and finding anal still more enjoyable.

If you've got a problem with that, this is probably the wrong community for you.

If they have been treated and still like anal more, then that's very different.