Rimmer wrote: ↑Thu Jun 16, 2022 1:21 amYou certainly can become obsessed with anal. It’s like getting a long run of anal, having vaginal seems to spoil the run. My wife, who when we met hadn’t had and didn’t like the idea of anal, eventually asked if I wanted to go AO. I would have said we then became 80-90% AO for three or four years, but I have been thinking lately about this and really, we were 95-99% AO. Several years into our marriage, she discovered that she wanted to be submissive (she later discovered she was a ‘Brat’ and a ‘switch’, terms we had not heard of until we looked into our relationship and found others were like this and there were names for things). And I guess AO was a dominance thing, though my love of anal did not stem from that, that happened earlier as a young teenager. When she asked if I wanted to exclusively use her ass, it was like ‘coming out’ and felt great. As far as your pussy being loose or looser than your ass. We have actually started having more vaginal sex because my wife’s pussy has become looser, go figure? We got into fisting, her vagina was not getting used, only by dildos, so we started fisting. A few months in we decided to have vaginal sex, just to see if she did in fact feel looser, it felt great for both of us. The contrast between her tight ass hole and her loose (looser) pussy gives two great sensation options. When her pussy was tighter, I just preferred her ass. It is funny that we started fisting because my dick was not gong in her pussy, hardly, and so it didn’t matter one jot if she got stretched out; but now we both love the feel. I guess we are currently an anal couple who have quite a bit of vaginal sex, like a vaginal couple who have started having more anal sex. Have you ever gone ass to pussy? Some people find they can do it with no consequence, we have done it many times with no bother – first by accident, and then when there was no harm we tried on purpose and still no harm (infection) some here have said they can do it and others have said they get in infection, must be down to body chemistry. It’s maybe a bit of a crazy thing to suggest, but what if he was taking you anally and you invited him straight into you pussy, might that tempt him back into your vagina? You would have to be prepared to go get some antibiotics if you did get an infection. Then you would know not to do it again. That may have been a suggestion too far, but I am just thinking what might break the long chain of anal. If mentally he’s racking them up like a score card. Anyway I hope you sort it out so you are both happy.
In four years, we’ve gone ass to pussy twice (alcohol fueled) and both times resulted in UTI’s for her. It may work for some, but not for us.