Pussy Punishment
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Pussy Punishment
Happy New Year everyone!
One of the things in my lifestyle happened recently and I felt like talking about it and seeing if anyone else dealt with it or had input.
Being anal only can admittedly be a challenge sometimes. Even though I'm pussy free by choice, being used still majorly turns me on. My pussy still gets excited, and since I don't cum from being ass fucked, I still rely on my clit to get off.
In my marriage, I practice orgasm denial except for one day a month when I can play with myself as much as I want. That means when I get used by my husband or boyfriends or hookups, I let my cunt ache and throb and drip and do my best not touch it. My problem is when my husband uses me.
He knows how to really get to me. He knows what to say, the right way to pull my nipples and I've always loved his dick in me.
He can get me to crack and rub myself for relief. It usually happens fairly close to my Pussy Play Day, which has become part of our play. If I touch myself, my Pussy Play Day is pushed a week and I have to ice my clit until it burns for half an hour after he finishes fucking me which includes more spanking than normal.
Does anyone else incorporate punishment into their AO lifestyle? My pussy is generally expected to not be sexualized and is sexless except on my Pussy Play Day. When I forget that, I deserve my punishment.
Edit: I had a pic of myself icing but took it down because it broke the rules.
One of the things in my lifestyle happened recently and I felt like talking about it and seeing if anyone else dealt with it or had input.
Being anal only can admittedly be a challenge sometimes. Even though I'm pussy free by choice, being used still majorly turns me on. My pussy still gets excited, and since I don't cum from being ass fucked, I still rely on my clit to get off.
In my marriage, I practice orgasm denial except for one day a month when I can play with myself as much as I want. That means when I get used by my husband or boyfriends or hookups, I let my cunt ache and throb and drip and do my best not touch it. My problem is when my husband uses me.
He knows how to really get to me. He knows what to say, the right way to pull my nipples and I've always loved his dick in me.
He can get me to crack and rub myself for relief. It usually happens fairly close to my Pussy Play Day, which has become part of our play. If I touch myself, my Pussy Play Day is pushed a week and I have to ice my clit until it burns for half an hour after he finishes fucking me which includes more spanking than normal.
Does anyone else incorporate punishment into their AO lifestyle? My pussy is generally expected to not be sexualized and is sexless except on my Pussy Play Day. When I forget that, I deserve my punishment.
Edit: I had a pic of myself icing but took it down because it broke the rules.
Last edited by sharedbuttslut on Fri Jan 06, 2023 4:19 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Re: Pussy Punishment
To me all this just sounds much too complicated then life has to be.
I am always amazed what people think of when it comes to sex. But for me it’s up to her. If she feels the urge to involve her clit, I will never stop her. Cause she only does it on moment she needs her orgasm. Like 3/4 times she just enjoys her assfuck and edges like crazy with my cock up her ass. She simply doesn’t reach full orgasm that way.
1/4 times she will therefor start playing with her clit till she spasms and cums. I love it. If it were up to me she would do it every fucksession. But she doesn’t want it. She want us to enjoy sex as a perfect moment in the day and orgasms are not neccessary.
I am always amazed what people think of when it comes to sex. But for me it’s up to her. If she feels the urge to involve her clit, I will never stop her. Cause she only does it on moment she needs her orgasm. Like 3/4 times she just enjoys her assfuck and edges like crazy with my cock up her ass. She simply doesn’t reach full orgasm that way.
1/4 times she will therefor start playing with her clit till she spasms and cums. I love it. If it were up to me she would do it every fucksession. But she doesn’t want it. She want us to enjoy sex as a perfect moment in the day and orgasms are not neccessary.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
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“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
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Re: Pussy Punishment
Backdoorlover wrote: ↑Wed Jan 04, 2023 11:01 pmTo me all this just sounds much too complicated then life has to be.
I can understand why you think it's complicated, but I've gotten used to it by now. We practice a D/s lifestyle and it's fun to withhold my urges and endure what I have coming if I cave to my desires.
I also suffer depression and had some issues with overuse of masturbation and casual sex to feel happy in my younger days before I was anal only. So staying pussy free and pushing through my arousal gives me some feeling of overcoming that, to a degree.
I know it's not for everyone.
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If there’s something this forum makes me understand, it would be that there are so many ways to enjoy sex.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”![🔥](//cdn.jsdelivr.net/emojione/assets/3.1/png/64/1f525.png)
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
![🔥](http://cdn.jsdelivr.net/emojione/assets/3.1/png/64/1f525.png)
Re: Pussy Punishment
Not denial so much, but we did go through a phase of spanking the pussy with a small, purpose made, riding crop either before or during anal, maybe I should rummage it out again!!!! It as from Etsy, the seller calls them pocket crops - he made them so they fit in a travel bag, not gimmicky, just like a proper horse crop but smaller - they are very spanky!!! ![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif)
![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif)
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Re: Pussy Punishment
I've seen something similar I think. Sounds fun. I've had my vulva spanked many times. I kinda have fat lips so my husband just sees a target, haha.
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I'm really into pain so this might not be for everyone: -Clothespins are really fun! I've had them on my pussy while doing anal before and it's really intense. They tug and pull while getting fucked.
-I really like my pussy getting spanked. I made a diy paddle out of an old studded leather belt that works really well. Wooden spoons are also really great.
-Toothbrush on clit. Doesn't seem like it would be that bad but the bristles are really rough and it will leave your skin tender so you feel it all day.
-Also for denial if you're having a hard time not touching, you can use numbing throat spray or the lubes for guys who cum quickly. Numbs everything so even if you wanted to get off you can't.
-I really like my pussy getting spanked. I made a diy paddle out of an old studded leather belt that works really well. Wooden spoons are also really great.
-Toothbrush on clit. Doesn't seem like it would be that bad but the bristles are really rough and it will leave your skin tender so you feel it all day.
-Also for denial if you're having a hard time not touching, you can use numbing throat spray or the lubes for guys who cum quickly. Numbs everything so even if you wanted to get off you can't.
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Re: Pussy Punishment
Alyssaarcane wrote: ↑Fri Jan 06, 2023 9:53 pmI'm really into pain so this might not be for everyone: -Clothespins are really fun! I've had them on my pussy while doing anal before and it's really intense. They tug and pull while getting fucked.
-I really like my pussy getting spanked. I made a diy paddle out of an old studded leather belt that works really well. Wooden spoons are also really great.
-Toothbrush on clit. Doesn't seem like it would be that bad but the bristles are really rough and it will leave your skin tender so you feel it all day.
-Also for denial if you're having a hard time not touching, you can use numbing throat spray or the lubes for guys who cum quickly. Numbs everything so even if you wanted to get off you can't.
I wouldn't say I'm necessarily into pain, but I can endure it when I receive it. Wooden spoons and I have a history for sure. I've seen weighted clamps on pussy lips in porn, that looks fun, in theory.
Numbing spray does sound interesting. I'll look into that. Thank you!