We failed again :(

[Slut_pup]

Hi first time poster here thought I would take the plunge and share my experience and maybe ask for a little help in this topic.

I’ll start by saying I’ve always preferred anal. Like to the point where I don’t really get off on vaginal or basic oral. I love rimming though I will gladly suck on assholes all day and forget my girlfriend even has a pussy. We’ve been together about 20 months now.

I will have sex with the vagina the first time I have sex with a girl. And my gf is no exception. (I’ve had a couple of experiences where I did cum in the ass the first time with someone but I wish that it was just normal to go for the ass straight away and ignore the vagina completely).

Anyway It didn’t take us too long to get very kinky. She had not had much anal sex in the past from what I’ve told it wasn’t very good. She doesn’t tend to really love vaginal sex but she took it the first few times. We quickly moved on to mostly anal because she absolutely loved it she told me she has the best sex ever with me when we have anal. She is the best girl I’ve ever had sex with we are very sexually compatible. (We both love all the same dirty things)

Anyway every time we tried having vaginal sex something always felt off like it didn’t feel quite right. It would always slip out and it doesn’t particularly feel very good for either of us. I’ve seen what porn she likes and she does like both vaginal and anal porn. (Seems to have a thing for breeding and getting pregnant). She does want it in the vagina but it never seems to work.

One day I was looking for anal only porn and came across this website and was fascinated. I didn’t think there would be girls who only want anal. But I talked to her about it and we both agreed to be anal only. We slipped up a couple time trying vaginal but it never felt right or good for either of us. So we had anal about 99% of the time.

A few months ago she tells me that she wants to be fully anal only and we made an agreement to never have sex in the vagina unless it was for pregnancy.

We held that promise until last night. We been arguing a little bit latly and things havnt been the best. We haven’t had sex for over a week (anal) because we didn’t use lube last time and I ripped her asshole apart and it hurt her. So she wasn’t too keen on having sex if it hurt her but we were both so horny we just went for vaginal and again It felt good until I got my cock deep in her pussy and again it didn’t feel right slipped out many times and she realised that she must have a tilted uterus like her mother. She’s told me her mother is mostly anal only too because she can’t really have sex in the vagina (Due to the tilted uterus).
Her vagina feels like some weird soft pocket that bends my cock the wrong way, but her anus feels like the most amazing tight little ring that just feels so right.

So anyway after both of us being a bit dissatisfied from having vaginal sex we both got a little frustrated and told her to just jack me off but she wasn’t really feeling it so we both pretty much just said fuck it and decided to just do anal again.

And it felt AMAZING. My little cock felt so good in her asshole. We got a bit rough and told her so many dirty things like ‘you don’t deserve cock in the pussy, you’re a dirty little anal slut and you love it in the bum.’ I made her repeat it over and over again to the point she was getting annoyed but it was just turning me on more the more degraded she felt. And I came so deep in her ass. We both fell back and after a few minutes she farts out all the brown cum in her ass all over me. She licks it all up and swallows it.

So essentially that’s our story up til today.
I have found my anal only girl I know it can work with anal only. But we keep slipping up every several months try vaginal and become disappointed again. I’m sad that we can’t keep our anal only streak. Is there a way I can help convince her to stay anal only. I don’t think she’s ever going to like it in the vagina. I want her to accept it for the way it is and we can just do anal all the time but I think we’re going to keep slipping up like this until I can convince her

Thank you for reading my anal only story. I hope we can improve this relationship one day and become anal only again.

[Backdoorlover]

I just think a few things:

If you assfuck her dry, go slow. There is absolutely no use in fucking an asshole hard, when dry fucking.

And give it time. I get the feeling you guys will naturally evolve to 100% anal only, if you give it time and patience.

Further it seems to me you love the degrading thing and she doesn’t ? If so, don’t do it cause you will push her away.

[Slut_pup]

Thank you for your advice I’ll just clear things up now. She does love the degrading thing there’s nothing about us that turns us off. I think it was just an off night we haven’t been going to great as a relationship last couple weeks it doesn’t have anything to do with sexual things it’s just cause we couldn’t have sex for a while as well and it wasn’t working with vaginal so we were a bit in different head spaces. She is also not on any birth control so I was a bit worried after we did it.

She’s having a night away tonight I think we need it but I do feel with time things will get better.

I think my main concern is as much as she loves anal and it works much better than vaginal I feel she will always have those times where she wants to be ‘breeded’ so to say. It’s one of her biggest kinks so we just don’t know what to do even though just not too long ago she said she wanted to be anal only for a couple years til we are ready to have kids.

But yes we agreed that we should probably use lube everytime to stop the splitting as it’s happend a few times. She did want it dry so I wasn’t being an ass about it.

[Backdoorlover]

Dry is okay, we love dry anal too. But I hate damaging her asshole cause it simply means no anal the next day.

With my woman if I assfuck her for five minutes, het asshole turns all buttery. After that I can pound her ass as hard as I want. That’s what I mean with patience.

[semi-normal]

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[semi-normal]

Please do not consider it failing. If you are anal mostly, there is no issue with occasional other options so please don't limit yourself. For me, I want to love all of my lover and there is virtually nothing off limits although we finish with anal 98% of the time. Plus in my opinion, it relieves your partner of any stress regarding what is in store.
It seems you are very committed to anal, which is fine, but do not let the occasional vaginal or oral or anything let you think you are "failing".

[semi-normal]

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She gives head so well that sometimes I cannot delay.