Hey everyone. I've been following this board for a little while, because it fits pretty squarely in my interests. I'm a non-op transsexual, (why the hell would I -pay- to get a fake vagina when I already have a butt? Sorry if that offends anyone.) and I was wondering how it might fit into your guy's point of view. Now that I think about it.. I'm wondering whether or not homosexual couples / etc would be welcome here... I mean, I'm assuming that they would mostly be anal only, not that I know a thing about gay people, despite that some people would argue to the contrary. So I guess my question, or one of them, is kinda this: Is it an anal only lifestyle if you don't have the ability to choose the alternative?
I'm truly sorry if I'm not welcome here, it's just that sexual topics generally aren't very welcome on trans oriented sites, and even then, that tends to just be for stuff concerning srs.
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Hi! You're absolutely welcome here! Anyone at all who is open to friendly discussion is welcome.
You raise an interesting point regarding whether or not it qualifies in the same way as an anal only lifestyle for homosexual men or transsexuals for whom vaginal penetration is not an option anyway. The way I see it, in one sense it is different simply because of the lack of choice, but on the other hand if they also embrace anal sex with the same enthusiasm the end result is the same.
You raise an interesting point regarding whether or not it qualifies in the same way as an anal only lifestyle for homosexual men or transsexuals for whom vaginal penetration is not an option anyway. The way I see it, in one sense it is different simply because of the lack of choice, but on the other hand if they also embrace anal sex with the same enthusiasm the end result is the same.
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Welcome! I think we are all discovering what a diverse background and motivation their is for all the people interested in the AO lifestyle, not one size fits all. Look forward to your input to the discussions.
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Okay, good to know. I was really surprised at the lack of much pro-anal material out there, aside from pornography and a few blogs so I'm really excited that this site exists now.
This is an introduction thread though, and I forgot to do that so.. My name is Alyssa, I'm 20 years old, and very much a virgin unfortunately T.T I was always into anal, but it wasn't until I started taking hormones that anal play started feeling good to me. It just happened all of the sudden and it was pretty jarring.
My favorite thing about anal, aside from the beautiful feelings, is that in my opinion it has more of a capacity to be intimate and violent at the same time than other sex does.
This is an introduction thread though, and I forgot to do that so.. My name is Alyssa, I'm 20 years old, and very much a virgin unfortunately T.T I was always into anal, but it wasn't until I started taking hormones that anal play started feeling good to me. It just happened all of the sudden and it was pretty jarring.
My favorite thing about anal, aside from the beautiful feelings, is that in my opinion it has more of a capacity to be intimate and violent at the same time than other sex does.
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lostin_herhead wrote: My favorite thing about anal, aside from the beautiful feelings, is that in my opinion it has more of a capacity to be intimate and violent at the same time than other sex does.
It doesn't have to be that way. It depends on if the guy is a jerk or not.
Welcome, by the way.
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part of the allure for me is the neglect of a fully operating part of one's genetalia - which I suppose with trans folk that's the same kinda situation in a way! However, anal suggests 'receiving' here for the most part (though of course we have guys that eschew vaginal entirely as well, though that's not as drastic a lifestyle, if they can get it
But the OP has a point - perhaps there should be a board dedicated to the topic, make everyone feel welcome!
However, anal suggests 'receiving' here for the most part (though of course we have guys that eschew vaginal entirely as well, though that's not as drastic a lifestyle, if they can get it But the OP has a point - perhaps there should be a board dedicated to the topic, make everyone feel welcome!
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myttia wrote:part of the allure for me is the neglect of a fully operating part of one's genetalia
I'm like that but not like some others who think its just a bit of fun. I don't want to involve my gf's vagina in sex because to be honest i don't like it and it just turns me off.
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taylork wrote:myttia wrote:part of the allure for me is the neglect of a fully operating part of one's genetalia
I'm like that but not like some others who think its just a bit of fun. I don't want to involve my gf's vagina in sex because to be honest i don't like it and it just turns me off.
I wonder how it makes your gf feel to know her vagina is such a turnoff for you.
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Marquis wrote:taylork wrote:myttia wrote:part of the allure for me is the neglect of a fully operating part of one's genetalia
I'm like that but not like some others who think its just a bit of fun. I don't want to involve my gf's vagina in sex because to be honest i don't like it and it just turns me off.
I wonder how it makes your gf feel to know her vagina is such a turnoff for you.
Well i never said it like that to her. I hope you aren't judging me marquis. Its just how i am and how i've always been and with other girls so its not just her. Obviously she knows what i prefer and she accepts that and me for what i am. I can't lie about it anymore.
Anyway, we have a great relationship and great sex and it doesn't matter what anyone thinks.
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taylork wrote:Marquis wrote:taylork wrote:
I wonder how it makes your gf feel to know her vagina is such a turnoff for you.
Well i never said it like that to her. I hope you aren't judging me marquis. Its just how i am and how i've always been and with other girls so its not just her. Obviously she knows what i prefer and she accepts that and me for what i am. I can't lie about it anymore.
Anyway, we have a great relationship and great sex and it doesn't matter what anyone thinks.
We are wandering off-topic (sorry lostin_herhead) but this is the kind of debate that makes me want to participate here. This demonstrates what I would say is the crux of matter with regards to the two types who frequent this forum - the schism, as it were.
On the one hand you have people into AO (or just anal) because they choose, because they feel it is somehow; naughty, kinky, deviant, makes them feel powerful, they like to cause pain, dominate. Whatever. Perhaps they want to be different, to differentiate themselves or feel some excitement.
Then on the other hand, you've got those who feel this is an innate part of them, who do not necessarily choose the lifestyle (for want of a better description) because that is simply who or what they are. After all, what male would want to be turned off by female genitalia?
