Boredom / How do they do it?

[Robert]

Wow I never knew I'd upset so many people for just being honest about my point of view.

Thank you. This is a great and honest response. I get that many here have anal fetishes but their experiences are not universal and I sometimes question how much is reality and how much is just watching too much porn.

Yes its honest. But its not the only point of view, or the correct one to have. I never said I think my experience was universal. I asked "do you think most normal people feel the same". Hardly a major crime now is it?

I've read a few critical posts here recently and it seems to me some of you are forgetting what this site is called. I'll remind you all in case you forgot:

Anal.

Only.

Do my views make any sense now or do I need to get in touch with reality for wathing too much porn

[analsexonly]

There is no universal view on sex.

Some people like vaginal sex more. Some people like anal sex more. Some people like both equally. These are all valid preferences. To someone who prefers anal exclusively, vaginal sex is likely going to be boring. To someone who prefers vaginal exclusively, anal sex is going to be unappealing for a variety of reasons. To someone who likes both, they will derive enjoyment from both. This is fine. All legal and consensual sexual preferences and choices are fine.

Some people like vaginas in a general sense (and may enjoy fingering, playing with clits, and cunnilingus) but only want to have coitus anally. Some people have no attraction to vaginas and while they don't dislike them, they simply don't do anything for them. Others are actively turned off by vaginas but love women otherwise. These are all valid preferences, and while you may disagree with them, they do not make the people who have them bad people or people who should try to change if they don't want to. People's preferences are perhaps somewhat influenced by their experiences but are also somewhat innate, and saying someone's preference is wrong and should be changed is along the same lines of saying a gay or straight person can and/or should change their sexual orientation. It's not a choice.

Anyway. All thoughts on this topic are certainly welcome and appreciated, I'd just like everyone to be tolerant of other people's kinks and preferences.

[KeepItReal]

A far better way to encourage women to be more adventurous and open their backdoors for us - is to be Pro-Anal as opposed to being Anti-Pussy...

Mmmm.

I think you mistake indifference or lack of passion for them as hating vagina's, which is just not true (speaking for myself at any rate).

Exactly dude - which is why we are "abnormal" as far as society is concerned! We are Lefties in a Right-Handed world!

Why not love pussy just as much as ass?

Er...because I don't It's not a choice you know. If it were I wouldn't be here.

Really? Sure, we all love fucking ass instead of pussy - but you seriously don't like looking at pussy or feeling it or tasting it?

(Besides... they are both so pretty!)

If that's so then why do so many men and women insist on them being shaved?

What an intriguing question bro! It's because we can then get a better view of that Pretty Pussy, that's why! (Although a nice landing-strip bikini wax is just as appealing!)

Indeed, even Awesome Assholes look much nicer and more welcoming when they are shaved and hair-free! Pornstars go as far as bleaching them to get a perfect pink colour! I love it! It's like make-up for the butt!

[KeepItReal]

Wow I never knew I'd upset so many people for just being honest about my point of view.

Whose upset bro? We just chillin and ballin!

Thank you. This is a great and honest response. I get that many here have anal fetishes but their experiences are not universal and I sometimes question how much is reality and how much is just watching too much porn.

Yes its honest. But its not the only point of view, or the correct one to have. I never said I think my experience was universal. I asked "do you think most normal people feel the same". Hardly a major crime now is it?

No crime at all - I think people may be reacting to the general tone of forum as opposed to your specific post

As to your question, we have to define what is "normal people" - most likely we are talking about the majority of people, so the answer to your question is obviously No... "normal people" are not bored with Vaginal sex. However, I think it's also obvious when you look at the content of porn these days and sexuality surveys - that a rapidly growing number of Men, are definitely becoming more and more interested in having Anal sex... therefore we could interpret this to mean many Men are getting bored of Pussy, or perhaps more accurately, bored of Pussy Only lol!

What Women feel about this will no doubt be quite different - for the time being at least!

I've read a few critical posts here recently and it seems to me some of you are forgetting what this site is called. I'll remind you all in case you forgot:

Anal.
Only.

Do my views make any sense now or do I need to get in touch with reality for wathing too much porn

I hear ya dude! At the same time though, the site is not called:

Lets
Hate
Vaginas
So
That
We
Alienate
The
Very
People
We
Want
To
Have
Anal
Only
With


This is not in reference to you - more an overall view of how (I personally) think the forum would grow and gain great benefit from.

Ideally this site would be 50/50 male and female - if we don't appeal to women (the gate-keepers of the asses we so love!) and this place becomes 99.9% male... then it will become pretty boring and eventually end up being yet another generic adult website with people merely posting Anal porn and sexual fantasies... which would defeat the object of such a dedicated discussion board...

[analonlylondonebony]

More women than we realise have never enjoyed vaginal sex. Which is not to say that anal sex would be the answer ... but there's too much negative PR around anal sex for them to ever try it. So, when sex has to happen, they'll settle for the vaginal sex, teleport themselves out of the room while it's happening, and come back in time to fake a moan or two so as not to bruise the man's ego.

I did not expect anal sex to ever be a replacement for vaginal sex. I was resigned to a life-time of dying of boredom during sex while the guy was clearly in seventh heaven. All I wanted was to feel as motivated as he clearly was. With anal I found that. Going back to vaginal sex, I felt more enraged at the pointlessness of it. What am I? A martyr for someone else's pleasure?

Sex for me is far from boring but that is because I have cut out what was boring for me, vaginal play.

I'm lucky, that's what I am. Lucky I wasn't stuck in a relationship where vaginal sex was already the norm and I couldn't

Thank you. This is a great and honest response. I get that many here have anal fetishes but their experiences are not universal and I sometimes question how much is reality and how much is just watching too much porn.

[marcus]

Lets
Hate
Vaginas

It would add clarity to the discussion if you could point out who said they "hated" vagina's.

[KeepItReal]

Lets
Hate
Vaginas

It would add clarity to the discussion if you could point out who said they "hated" vagina's.

It would add levity to the discussion if people have a sense of humour and appreciate context!

[BBells]

Wow I never knew I'd upset so many people for just being honest about my point of view.

Thank you. This is a great and honest response. I get that many here have anal fetishes but their experiences are not universal and I sometimes question how much is reality and how much is just watching too much porn.

Yes its honest. But its not the only point of view, or the correct one to have. I never said I think my experience was universal. I asked "do you think most normal people feel the same". Hardly a major crime now is it?

I've read a few critical posts here recently and it seems to me some of you are forgetting what this site is called. I'll remind you all in case you forgot:

Anal.

Only.

Do my views make any sense now or do I need to get in touch with reality for wathing too much porn

No its bullshit posturing. Look at the title of the thread. "how do they do it? How do people tolerate pussy." I get that guys may prefer anal sex, I get that they find it feels better or more aesthetically pleasing. Hell, I even get that you only want anal sex, but the idea that vagina's are gross or boring or disgusting, or a chore is ridiculous. Sorry my body disgusts you. Are you bored of blowjobs too? Are guys grossed out by the teeth and having to put it in there? I thought this was a pro anal forum not an anti-pussy one.

This is what you said

Do you think most normal people feel the same? If they've not discovered anal how do they carry on without getting bored?

Danishcouple perfectly pointed out the problem with this thread. This is not about what you like, this is about discussing how boring vagina's are and how wrong people who like pussy are. You could have titled it something differently, you could have worded your post differently. But you did not. You chose those words for a reason and it was because you want everyone to get on board this anti-pussy mentality. Now, asking it is not a crime at all, and you have the right to do so, but don't be surprised when people respond to you aggressively or even angrily. And in calling you out I am not committing a crime either am i? I'll remind you just in case you forgot.

This

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message

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[marcus]

Lets
Hate
Vaginas

It would add clarity to the discussion if you could point out who said they "hated" vagina's.

It would add levity to the discussion if people have a sense of humour and appreciate context!

I don't understand why it is supposed to be humorous to suggest people have said thing's they never did.

[marcus]

but the idea that vagina's are gross or boring or disgusting, or a chore is ridiculous.

Who said that vagina's were gross or disgusting? And he merely said that having vaginal sex is boring to him. How do you know that it isn't? I don't see how you can assert that this is ridiculous with such conviction. Did you know for instance, that the are people who are asexual, to whom all sex is boring? Is that also ridiculous because it doesn't happen to be the same way that you feel about it?

Sorry my body disgusts you.

Did he say that either? Can we just keep to the facts please and leave out the hyperbole.

Are you bored of blowjobs too? Are guys grossed out by the teeth and having to put it in there?

I've no idea but perhaps there are such people. But that wasn't what the discussion was about....

I thought this was a pro anal forum not an anti-pussy one.

You're really surprised on the "Anal Only Lifestyle" that someone is less than enthusiastic about "pussy"

Danishcouple perfectly pointed out the problem with this thread. This is not about what you like, this is about discussing how boring vagina's are and how wrong people who like pussy are.

No, he didn't say they were wrong. He said how do they do it. I take this to mean how do they persevere, or continue to get satisfaction. It seems to me like a rhetorical device such as "How do those people do it, working those 12 hour shifts on the factory floor? Don't they go crazy?"

don't be surprised when people respond to you aggressively or even angrily.

There is no excuse on this forum for becoming aggressive with others. Some things that we read may conflict with our own views and, understandably as we are only human, make us angry. That is when we need to pause and moderate our language if we decide to reply. Threads which descend into aggression, sniping, ridicule or bullying will be locked.