analsexonly wrote:As for encountering women who are or would like to be anal only but don't often meet a man willing to do it, they make up a decent percentage of the single anal only women out there on tumblr, fetlife, kik, etc.
So not women you have met in real life - just (supposed!) women you met online...
These online "persona's" shouldn't be taken too seriously as they could just be dudes pretending to be female - or women who are playing to mens fantasies to build up a following etc...
The fact is that while many people may like to incorporate anal into their sex life, it's definitely a minority of both men and women who are willing to try excluding vaginal sex in favor of anal.
I agree, which is perhaps why this place is so quiet - the forum would be much more popular if the focus was about including Anal, instead of excluding vaginal... Anal Included Lifestyle
but I've gotten contacted by half a dozen or more women in the past year who love anal and would like it more often or all the time but have partners who think it's gross or gay or just don't want to do it.
Again I gotta ask, were these in real life or just online?
My point simply being that hangups and misconceptions about anal don't seem to be gender specific, and it can be hard for both anal only men and women to find compatible partners.
True. I think this is because an AO relationship develops and evolves over time between a happy couple - it's not something that most people are actively seeking from the moment they become sexually active, especially women...