Anal without lubrication

[curvesnedges]

I'm not ashamed to admit this - it could be about size. And some guys are just shaped and sized for easy anal entry with little lube.

E's pussy is for lube. Period. We don't even call it fucking anymore. It's just lubing my cock to fuck her.

She gets one minute to lube me and can earn two more from feel throating me for 20 seconds. If she gets off lubing my cock, that's an extra orgasm. If not...she'll get it anally too.

Win. Win. Win. Win.

Win

[adventurista]

The first time I tried anal with my girlfriend back in my teens, we just used saliva. I spent a lot of time rimming her and then with a little extra spit, entered really slowly. Eventually we built up to a pretty good rhythm and we both had great orgasms. We carried on doing that for a few months until we broke up. Later when I met my first wife, we started to do anal pretty much daily as our form of birth control...although she pretty much preferred it. However, she hated lube. We tried various types and she always found it burned or stung. So for 18 years we had a lot of anal without lube. Sex was usually oral, vaginal and finish with anal. I should mention that my endowment is 7 inches and relatively thick. Not knowing any better, and having seen lots of porn, I just assumed I was pretty average in size. Now ten years later and divorced, I have not come across any other women who prefer anal without lube. My second wife loves anal but needs a good amount of lube. We have done it in swingers clubs etc with no lube, but is usually a spur of the moment thing with lots of spit. So, I can say it does happen from personal experience but it really needs to be the woman who decides what she is comfortable with.

[zarafan]

The first time I had anal, with my girlfriend at age 19 (see a previous post on the subject...), we fortunately had baby oil to hand and I was able to lube her pretty well in advance of penetration. We continued using it for I guess a couple of weeks after that, but soon found that we didn't need it; she was delightfully wet by nature, so having fucked her vaginally at great length, that was usually sufficient for me to use as lube for anal sex.

With my ex-wife, she responded very well to analingus, so that was pretty much the primary means of lubrication; she was generally timid and inexperienced--less with sex than with eroticism--so anything like lube, exotic lingerie, anything calling attention to our sexuality would have seemed silly to her and thus a turn-off. We were definitely not of one mind on this subject! But to the extent that we had a sex life, it was primarily anal, and we never used a lubricant.

With my most recent girlfriend, as I've also detailed elsewhere on this list, the first year was very sexually intensive and very anal-oriented. During that time we never used lube, except for saliva and her pussy, and she never complained. After she confessed that she didn't enjoy anal sex, I invested in a water-based and a silicon-based lube for when we did have anal sex. (In fact, the frequency of anal didn't really decrease that much after her confession, maybe from 40% of the time to 25-30%?) I rather quickly developed a preference for the silicon-based lube--I preferred the way it feels and the residue it leaves was a turn-on for me, somehow sort of like "extra anal"--though she never indicated which she preferred.

I still have the bottle of silicon lube; call it the spoils of our separation.... I intend to use it from the outset if I'll have a willing partner. And I hope I get the chance to soon? (By the way, does this stuff ever have an expiration date?!)

[Blamethefiancee]

Tried going without lube a few times. First time when I was a teenager because I didn't know better. And she screamed the whole time. Another time it was OK and she felt no pain. But my dick was raw for a week.

Most recently it was a good experience for both of us going without lube. However, that's because my current partner wants me to make it painful. It's crazy, but I have no complaints.

[mardobolo]

I still have the bottle of silicon lube; call it the spoils of our separation.... I intend to use it from the outset if I'll have a willing partner. And I hope I get the chance to soon? (By the way, does this stuff ever have an expiration date?!)

We had a big bottle of silicone lube that sat on the shelf for a while, and after a year it separated into parts like the way some natural peanut butters do. No amount of shaking would get it to reconstitute properly.

Moral of the story: If you've got a bottle of lube you like, don't let it sit. Get out there and fuck some ass!!

[Jecampbell]

My wife actually prefers no lube. For one the lube decreases sensation for both of us. And two. The lube makes her stomach hurt the next day. We've tried several types over the years, and they all make her sick.

[Dilyara]

I had it 3 times without lube because I forgot to take it. I was too hard especially in the beginning and I cried a lot...

[Swirl]

I can go either way. But no lube is preference.

[Swirl]

Didn't realize how slutty this makes me sound.

I love it.

[analsexonly]

I can go either way. But no lube is preference.

By "no lube" do you mean "no artificial lube from a bottle", or nothing at all and going in dry?